Tuesday, February 7, 2023

Homily - 6A Sunday in Ordinary Time (12 February 2023) Avoid anger

 


6A Homily, Matthew 5:17-37, February 12, 2023

1) STORY
Abraham Lincoln’s army general had some trouble with one of his officers and complained to the president.  Lincoln told him to write a sharp letter to the officer, which he did.  The general then showed the letter to Lincoln.  After praising the general for the strong letter, he asked the general what he planned to do with it.  A bit surprised at this question, the general said he was going to send it to the officer.  Lincoln advised him to tear it up and write another one now that his anger has passed.  The president said not to send a letter when written in anger.

2) GOSPEL, MATTHEW 5:17-37
A) TO BE ANGRY WITH YOUR BROTHER

The fact is that sometimes we are angry with God, with our family, neighbors and even with ourselves.

B) YOU WILL BE LIABLE TO JUDGMENT

Jesus teaches us that we will be punished for being angry. Certainly, one punishment will be that we will be unhappy.

3) APPLICATION TO LIFE
A) ANGER IN OUR LIVES

i) We are angry with God if he does not answer our prayers. We think he has forgotten us or does not care about our sufferings and problems.  It is useless to depend on him for help.  It is better to believe that he is powerless or does not exist.

ii) We are angry with our family, friends, co-workers, Catholics, and neighbors.  They have hurt us by their words or actions.  
They have not come to our help when we are in need.   They have hurt our reputation by lying or exaggerating our weaknesses.

iii) We are even angry at ourselves because we have made stupid mistakes, have failed to achieve our goals, and because we are unhappy.

B) AVOID ANGER 

i) God loves us, cares for us, and wishes us to be happy.  He is wiser than we are.  He will give us strength to carry out his plan for us.  He will give us the wisdom to know what to do.  We must keep asking for his help and above all never abandon him.

ii) We must remember that others are weak, busy, and have to carry their own crosses.  Do not demand too much from them.  Be grateful for any help you receive from them.

iii) We must not demand too much from ourselves.  We will gradually continue to improve.  We must do our best and leave the rest to God.

4) CONCLUSION

Lincoln gave wise advice to the angry general.  Jesus teaches us that anger will result in serious consequences for us.  We must avoid anger toward God and our brothers.


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